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Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Our last moment with Ah Chor

earring collection



@ gurney plaza


Ah Chor was placed at Pekaka for 5days before the funeral day. Mummy sent Emeryn to school for half day on Mon and Tues as she was facing her school exam at that particular week. Mummy helped her with her revision a few nites in a row despite mourning the loss of Ah Chor. Mummy told Emeryn that ah chor would no longer be with us as she had left to heaven, a place where she finds more comfort. Obviously Emeryn would not understand.

Mummy: Emeryn, do you remember that you used to shout and push ah chor when she was getting near to you?

Emeryn: Yes

Mummy: Now, ah chor would not be here anymore. Would you want to say sorry for what you've done to her?

Emeryn: Yes. Tomorrow when i wake up i will tell her I'm sorry.



When Emeryn woke up the next morning, she lighted the joss stick with the help of mummy and ask for forgiveness. She stood beside the coffin and called up for ah chor. Ah Chor's funeral was held on 2pm, Tues and was surrounded by all of us with heavy heart and teary eyes. We tried to stole more glimpse of her before she was cremated. Later she was sent to Batu Gantung and after some prayers being read, the cremation started. That was one of the most heart wrenching moment for all of us.

All of us resumed work and school as usual on Wed morning. On the nite itself, both mummy and daddy could feel ah chor's presence in our home but yet we were not scared. While on Thurs morning, some close relatives gathered at the memorial park to collect ah chor's ashes and bones for the final ritual. After the necessary chanting and prayers held, we bid goodbye to Ah Chor at the temple where she was settled to rest in peace there.

On Sat morning, we attended the replacement for music class as we skipped the class on Tues evening. It was raining rather heavily but we fought over the rain and went for the class. During noon, mummy drove Emeryn to Gurney Plaza as she was having lunch gathering at Kim Gary. After our lunch, we shopped for a short while and Emeryn requested mummy to get her 3 pairs of earrings on her own selection. Later in the evening, daddy drove us out for dinner.

On Sun morning, mummy prepared breakfast for us. Later about noon, daddy left to the Thai Border with ah kong and kor kor to deal with some issue. Emeryn took her afternoon nap as usual before we proceeded to pay ah kong and por por our Sun visit. We dropped by at the wet market to get some ingredients for next day breakfast. Ah kong bought 4 education cds for Emeryn from Popular and Emeryn watched it there. We had our dinner there and then mummy fetched them to Prangin Mall with us as we wanted to check up the special bargain at Popular. We did not managed to grab anything but ended up mummy bought another 2 pairs of earring s for Emeryn. Mummy headed to the money changer before driving all of us to our night dessert, soya milk and tau hwa. After dropping ah kong and por por home, we headed to Pekaka to hand over the money to ah kong and we went home straight after that.



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