Yesterday Emeryn cried non stop from grandma's place till we reached home...She cried because grandpa restricted her from doing something naughty... and yet she can't get over it and cried loudly... She was yelling and screaming all the way home.. Mummy thought of it's time to discipline emeryn before thing get worst. Upon reaching home, mummy brought emeryn to mummy's room and took out a big ruler and spanked her backside, her hands and her legs... Mummy talked nicely and warned emeryn not to be naughty but she couldn't listen further and keep on crying.. Her body was turned slightly reddish from the spanking... She stood up and hugged mummy after that... Poor girl!!!! If daddy is here, i'm sure daddy will stop mummy from those foolish acts.
Mummy brought her out from the room as she needed a sleep soon... she was crying endlessly while having her milk.. Later mummy walked into her room and tried to talk to her but she refused to response to mummy... She might be angry....Oh boy, i seriously need to be patient and need more guidance on how to discipline my lil' girl... I knew spanking is not the right way to educate a child but i've tried to do all i can... At most time, i will turn into a blind eye if i failed to talk to her and when she did not response on my way of educating... Wat a foolish mum i am???
How i wish there is a handy manual for each 1st time mum on how to educate & discipline a child, how to deal when a child throw tantrum and how to make them listen to the adults??? Come to think of it, i always thought i've been such a wonderful mum and in actual fact i guess i'm not doing the right way...I failed terribly...
I bought dozen of books for emeryn but hardly finish all of them with emeryn as she is not paying attention while mummy is trying to read for her... Is there anything wrong with me??? No doubt i've provided emeryn the best in material but emotional wise, i guess i'm not doing enough to support her needs...That is why she turned to be a spoilt girl... She has everything in material.. be it books, dresses, toys, good food and fancy accessories...She has everything a girl should have... but yet I am to be blame for her bad attitude...
Thus, mummy went to Borders to get some books which could possibly helps on how to educate emeryn in the best way... What to expect the toddler years...
Mummy brought her out from the room as she needed a sleep soon... she was crying endlessly while having her milk.. Later mummy walked into her room and tried to talk to her but she refused to response to mummy... She might be angry....Oh boy, i seriously need to be patient and need more guidance on how to discipline my lil' girl... I knew spanking is not the right way to educate a child but i've tried to do all i can... At most time, i will turn into a blind eye if i failed to talk to her and when she did not response on my way of educating... Wat a foolish mum i am???
How i wish there is a handy manual for each 1st time mum on how to educate & discipline a child, how to deal when a child throw tantrum and how to make them listen to the adults??? Come to think of it, i always thought i've been such a wonderful mum and in actual fact i guess i'm not doing the right way...I failed terribly...
I bought dozen of books for emeryn but hardly finish all of them with emeryn as she is not paying attention while mummy is trying to read for her... Is there anything wrong with me??? No doubt i've provided emeryn the best in material but emotional wise, i guess i'm not doing enough to support her needs...That is why she turned to be a spoilt girl... She has everything in material.. be it books, dresses, toys, good food and fancy accessories...She has everything a girl should have... but yet I am to be blame for her bad attitude...
Thus, mummy went to Borders to get some books which could possibly helps on how to educate emeryn in the best way... What to expect the toddler years...
2 comments:
Aww poor mummy. Am sure lil' Emeryn will grow to understand her mummy's concern and good intentions.
Don't worry dear.. am sure Emeryn will be fine. Guess that's part and parcel of being a mum (not that I have the experience to begin with ;P) But as a friend I think you're really doing fine. Don't push yourself too hard k :)
Thanks for the soothing words.. I've browse online for different ways to handle emeryn. Hope it works on her :)
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