Meeting up with Flo @ Gurney Plaza

Flo & Emeryn @ Breeks

@ Gurney Plaza

birthday gift from mummy

Joel & Emeryn

Last Tues, daddy attended music class with us after months of not following us to the class. Perhaps it was daddy's first time seeing Emeryn had her hands-on to the piano. Daddy has just gotten his new car as well. His new baby named Honda Civic in White. And now he fetched us out most of the time with his new baby.

Mummy went out with Aunty Mei on Fri nite, leaving Emeryn at por por's. Later at the nite daddy picked Emeryn from por por's house and met mummy at home slightly after mid nite. Emeryn was sleeping soundly at the back passenger's seat. Both mummy and daddy went for their supper, hokkien mee while Emeryn continued her beauty sleep. Mummy brought Emeryn along to Matta Fair on Sat morning. Emeryn started making a mess not long after that as she was scared of the huge mascot. We left after 1hour and met mummy's friend for lunch at D'Piazza. After lunch, mummy dropped Emeryn at Pekaka and mummy went back to the fair. Again mummy can't resist temptation and bought a package for Shanghai & Beijing for the whole family includes por por, ah kong and both ee ee. A cheap bargain, can't resist at all.

Daddy brought us out for breakfast on Sun morning and he left to attend to his work right after breakfast. Later in the early evening we went to Gurney Plaza to shop for Emeryn's birthday gift. Mummy decided to get a musical jewelery box for her and Emeryn picked her choice. We also meet up with Aunty Mei, Uncle Faisal and Flo over dinner at Breeks. It was such a long time back since Emeryn meets Flo. They don't talk a lot, a merely like a stranger to each other. Emeryn gave Flo a box of chocolates too. After dinner, Emeryn went for a round of kiddy ride before we headed to Pekaka as daddy needed his laptop. We went home after staying for about 30mins.

Happy 6th Wedding Anniversary, Dad & Mom

fine dining @ thirty two

Sun breakfast

kiddy ride @ Tesco

We welcomed chik chik's newborn baby gal on Thurs nite, new addition to the Ung's Family. While on 25th June 2010 was mummy and daddy's 6th Wedding Anniversary. Daddy bought us dinner at Thirty Two and suggested Emeryn to come along for the celebration. We didn't proceed anywhere after the dinner but went home.

On Sat nite, mummy's friend who got back from Hong Kong gave Emeryn a handbag as her birthday gift. Later in the evening, mummy brought Emeryn to QBM and mummy bought herself a pair of Nike sport shoe. The next morning, Emeryn and mummy went down to the apartment and mummy jogged for 5.5rounds where Emeryn only managed to jog less than 3 rounds. She insisted going up to the house after her second rounds. We went to the temple to pay a visit to ah chor before we proceeded to our brunch later.

After brunch we came home and spent the rest of the afternoon at home where Emeryn took her afternoon nap later. Mummy drove Emeryn to por por's house for our Sun visit and we had our dinner there. We stayed awhile before leaving to Tesco to run some errand. We bought home por por's home-cooked dinner for daddy.

I Miss You, Mummy

Mummy went out for dinner at TGIF with aunty Jenny & aunty Su Ching. Kakak stayed at home taking care of Emeryn. Mummy was off to Langkawi on Sat afternoon so Emeryn stayed at Pekaka on Sat and Sun nite. On both nights, Emeryn called mummy and told mummy how much she missed mummy.

Emeryn: Mummy where are you now?
Mummy: Mummy is at Langkawi.
Emeryn: You come back now.
Mummy: I can't coz there is no more flight back.
Emeryn: I come and fetch you now, ok?

A Day at the Park, Under the Hot Sun

having tom yam

@ youth park

Last Tues, Emeryn was at por por's house for about an hour as mummy left for a short discussion. Jammin Senzation was closed for its holiday, thus no classes on that week. While on Wed nite, mummy left Emeryn at por por's place while she went out dinner with her friends. Por por and ah kong brought her to the fun fair at Pacific Komtar. Again mummy was out on Fri nite, leaving Emeryn with kakak at home.

On Sat noon, mummy drove Emeryn & kakak to Lye Peng travel as we needed to help Toki Ee Ee with her China visa application. We headed to Prangin Mall for lunch and shopping after that. We had tom yam for lunch and amazingly Emeryn drank the spicy & sour tom yam without fear. Oh, my lil' spice baby. Haha. We shopped around until 3.30pm and mummy bought a pair of heels and 2 tube tops. We went home for Emeryn's afternoon nap right after that. Later in the evening, daddy fetched us out for dinner and we had Thai cuisine at Sebai Sebai, Bt Lanchang. It was World Cup fever, thus daddy glued himself to his notebook.

We spent our Sun morning at home until lunch hour. Again daddy fetched us out for lunch at Perak Road. He then choose to be at home while mummy drove Emeryn to Youth Park. It was a hot sunny Sunday. Emeryn enjoyed herself at the play ground upon reaching and later proceeded to the pool side. She dipped herself into the pool and played with her toys. We spent more than an hour there before leaving home. Both mummy and Emeryn had their afternoon nap upon reaching home. Later mummy fetched Emeryn to por por's place at 6pm. We went there for our dinner and spent about an hour there before leaving to Tesco to run some errands.

Week of Visiting the Doctors.. Sigh!!!

Mummy left Emeryn at Pekaka on Tues and Wed as she went to KL for her shopping spree. Mummy got Uncle James to send Emeryn to and from school for these 2 days even though Emeryn refused at the first moment. Mummy got herself a gucci tote bag and coach bag and a LV wallet for daddy and last but not least a toy for Emeryn. Daddy & Emeryn picked mummy at the airport on Wed nite. Emeryn was having conjunctivitis since Wed morning. As soon as mummy touched down, mummy sent Emeryn to the clinic and the doctor confirmed it was an infection. Emeryn was prescribed a medicine to reduce the itchiness and an eye drop. Emeryn attended school the next day despite her condition.

Fri was Wesak day and it was a public holiday. Daddy left to work early in the morning while mummy lazed around in the room. As soon as mummy woke up, Emeryn notified mummy that she had finished the whole bottle of the flu syrup. Oh my!!! She climbed on the chair and took it from the top of the cabinet. Mummy rushed her to LWE and luckily dr Tan was there to attend to her. Emeryn was said to be in a normal condition and not having any breathing difficulties. We went home at about 1.30pm and bought lunch home as well. After the lunch at home, mummy sent Emeryn to Pekaka while mummy went to Mayfair for her treatment. Mummy returned to Pekaka at about 5.30pm and then mummy bought Emeryn out for dinner. We went for dinner at New Lane with por por, ah kong, theng ee ee and her boyfriend, toki ee ee, her boyfriend and a friend.

We went to the replacement music class on Sat morning. After the music class, we proceeded to LWE for mummy's eye check up. We went home after visiting LWE and then headed to Egate for lunch with mummy's friend at Secret Recipe. We dropped by at Tesco right after our lunch to shop for some groceries and necessities. We had our late dinner at around 9.45pm at Sg Nibong before sending Toki Ee Ee off to the bus station. Mummy's friend picked her earlier from the eatery place and she went for a few drinks. Ah kong drove mummy's car back and watched after Emeryn before mummy picked Emeryn later.

We spent our Sun morning at home. After lunch, we went to the temple to visit ah chor and mummy's grandpa. Mummy bought some joss sticks, candles, coffee and ciggy to be offered to ah chor and her grandpa. Uon reaching the temple filled with prayers, Emeryn was taken aback and started crying hysterically. She insisted of leaving, thus mummy spent a very short while at the temple. After the prayers, we headed to Rifle Range to pay mummy's grandma a visit. We bought her fav meal, wan than mee. Emeryn snapped a few pic with ah chor. Ah chor is getting weaker nowadays. She can't walk without support. Poor thing. We then proceeded to por por's place for our usual Sun visit. We had our early dinner there before leaving home. Emeryn slept early that evening as she missed her afternoon nap.

Our last moment with Ah Chor

earring collection

@ gurney plaza

Ah Chor was placed at Pekaka for 5days before the funeral day. Mummy sent Emeryn to school for half day on Mon and Tues as she was facing her school exam at that particular week. Mummy helped her with her revision a few nites in a row despite mourning the loss of Ah Chor. Mummy told Emeryn that ah chor would no longer be with us as she had left to heaven, a place where she finds more comfort. Obviously Emeryn would not understand.

Mummy: Emeryn, do you remember that you used to shout and push ah chor when she was getting near to you?

Emeryn: Yes

Mummy: Now, ah chor would not be here anymore. Would you want to say sorry for what you've done to her?

Emeryn: Yes. Tomorrow when i wake up i will tell her I'm sorry.


When Emeryn woke up the next morning, she lighted the joss stick with the help of mummy and ask for forgiveness. She stood beside the coffin and called up for ah chor. Ah Chor's funeral was held on 2pm, Tues and was surrounded by all of us with heavy heart and teary eyes. We tried to stole more glimpse of her before she was cremated. Later she was sent to Batu Gantung and after some prayers being read, the cremation started. That was one of the most heart wrenching moment for all of us.

All of us resumed work and school as usual on Wed morning. On the nite itself, both mummy and daddy could feel ah chor's presence in our home but yet we were not scared. While on Thurs morning, some close relatives gathered at the memorial park to collect ah chor's ashes and bones for the final ritual. After the necessary chanting and prayers held, we bid goodbye to Ah Chor at the temple where she was settled to rest in peace there.

On Sat morning, we attended the replacement for music class as we skipped the class on Tues evening. It was raining rather heavily but we fought over the rain and went for the class. During noon, mummy drove Emeryn to Gurney Plaza as she was having lunch gathering at Kim Gary. After our lunch, we shopped for a short while and Emeryn requested mummy to get her 3 pairs of earrings on her own selection. Later in the evening, daddy drove us out for dinner.

On Sun morning, mummy prepared breakfast for us. Later about noon, daddy left to the Thai Border with ah kong and kor kor to deal with some issue. Emeryn took her afternoon nap as usual before we proceeded to pay ah kong and por por our Sun visit. We dropped by at the wet market to get some ingredients for next day breakfast. Ah kong bought 4 education cds for Emeryn from Popular and Emeryn watched it there. We had our dinner there and then mummy fetched them to Prangin Mall with us as we wanted to check up the special bargain at Popular. We did not managed to grab anything but ended up mummy bought another 2 pairs of earring s for Emeryn. Mummy headed to the money changer before driving all of us to our night dessert, soya milk and tau hwa. After dropping ah kong and por por home, we headed to Pekaka to hand over the money to ah kong and we went home straight after that.

Good-Bye My Dear Ah Chor

We visited ah chor at the hospital after our dinner on Mon evening. She talked to us like normal. We did not manage to pay ah chor a visit on Tues as we attended music class. Again we paid her a visit on Wed evening. She was sleeping soundly when we arrived. We tried waking her up but to no evil. She opened her eyes and looked at us and continued her sleep. She looked really weak and obviously tired. Under normal circumstances, ah chor will keep herself awake knowing her favourite girl, Emeryn was there. But this time, she choose to sleep.

Bad news started pouring in on Thurs afternoon after mummy received a call from daddy. Ah chor was having terrible breathing difficulties. Mummy rushed to the hospital immediately upon receiving daddy's call and picked Emeryn from the nursery. When we reached the ward, ah chor's bed was empty and she was placed next to the nursing care. She was attached to the oxygen and half conscious. She can't talk and barely open her eyes and make any movement. Oh my!!! Tears running down uncontrollably. We held her hands and tried calling her. At that moment, she could still gave us a tiny response. Some relative made their ways to the hospital hoping to see ah chor for the last time. Her left hand was terribly swollen and her skin on chin dropped tremendously. She looked so pale and weak. All of us stood there helplessly.

Ah Chor was allowed to go home after her pulses were stabilized. She was sent home via ambulance and she needed the assistance of the oxygen at home. Upon reaching home, she looked a lot more better. She could move her hands and legs a little and gave us more body language compare to when she was in the hospital. Granny made her coffee and gave her a puff on her ciggy. We tried fulfilling her the very best way we could and make her a contented lady before leaving us. She touched her hair, giving us the indication she needed a shave on her hair. We had her changed into her new clothing, wipe her, fed her and make her the most beautiful lady for the day. She could even drew a smile over her face. Many relatives make their ways to visit ah chor. Everyone of us tried cherishing the very last moment with her.

At about 12.30am, mummy heard some noise downstairs and she rushed down. Many of them surrounded her and kept on calling her. One by one, we squatted next to her and held her hand. Her breathing became weak and weaker the very next minutes. Mummy stood next to her and held her hands. Mummy fed her with some drinking water but she refused to consume it. Ah chor tried to talk but no words were utter from her mouth. Poor thing. Slowly her breath stopped and all of us called out for her. The next moment we realized ah chor has left us, yes left us forever. She was pronounced dead at 12.45am. Her face turned green right after she blew her last breath. She leave behind a wonderful family she once built. She was one tough lady who waited for everyone to arrived before she called off her life. She was 92. The date 14th May 2010 marked a sad date for all of us. Though she had lived a wonderful life yet we still can't accept the fact that she was gone, gone for good.

The next morning, we prepared for the wake and still mourning for the loss of a wonderful lady, the pillar to the family. Ah chor, you will always be in our heart and we will always love you.


"She crossed my life and touched my heart. She showed me the real meaning of unconditional love. She loved me & Emeryn more than her own grandchild. Thank you for loving us. May you rest in peace, granny-in-law."

Happy Mother's Day

During the weekday, mummy done a lot of revision with Emeryn as she is facing her exam next 2 weeks. It sadden mummy a lot knowing her princess can't recognize alphabets and numbers. Mummy tried changing her teaching approach and encouraged Emeryn more rather than put more pressure on her. It works wonder where Emeryn could coloured a nice piece of art with constant encouragement. On Fri morning, mummy had her first presentation on Malay and it turned out perfect. Bravo, mummy. Mummy left Emeryn at por por's house as she went out for dinner with her friend. Mummy also bought a brand new hand phone, nokia X6 which cost her RM1400. Mummy picked Emeryn at around 11.30pm and she was still awake. Ah kong and por por brought her out to the playground while waiting for mummy's pick up.

We spent Sat morning at home. In the early evening, daddy dropped us to the playground at Ashley Green. It was our first time there and mummy's first time snapping Emeryn's photo with her new digital camera. We went for dinner right after the play time but only daddy had his dinner. Mummy was too full for dinner at that time. Later at nite, mummy had a piece of burger, a fried egg and 2 sausages for her late dinner.

Sun, it was Mother's Day. It was the day ah chor was hospitalized due to her breathing difficulty. Ah kong was down with high fever and we ended with no celebration. Poor thing. Mummy and daddy were at the hospital in the afternoon while Emeryn was at Pekaka. After settling the hospital procedure, daddy fetched us out for dinner. After our dinner, we dropped by at LWE to pay a h chor a visit. Albeit from being so sick, she could still talked to us. We stayed for more than an hour and waited for the doctor's prescription. The doctor delivered and dropped some negative hints. That's where the nightmare struck.

Flying Kite

Last Tues, we went for music class as usual. Mummy started having a bad swelling on her eyes after using the eye drop. Her eyes swell so fast that she could not wait for daddy to send her to hospital. Thus mummy drove on her own while Emeryn tagged along. It was a tremendous difficult drive for mummy. Mummy was attended at the emergency unit at LWE and later daddy drove there. That nite, Emeryn slept over at Pekaka as mummy could not managed to handle Emeryn.

Mummy was granted medical leave for Wed & Thur. Eventually Emeryn refused to go to school on Wed morning. Mummy sent Emeryn to school on Thurs morning while she rest at home for another day. mummy went to work as usual on Fri morning and sent Emeryn to por por's house in the evening as she went out for dinner with her friend.

We stayed at home on Sat morning while daddy went off for work. Later in the evening, daddy dropped mummy at Queensbay to develop the photo. We went for dinner before mummy picked up the photo again. After that we went to the seaside opposite QBM and daddy bought a kite for Emeryn. Eventually both mummy and daddy were playing the kite and Emeryn don't really got the chance to play until she complaint. We went back to Pekaka for a short while before sending Emeryn to por por's house again. Mummy and daddy went off to the temple for a prayer.

On Sun morning, we went for brunch at Zealand cafe with granny and the whole bunch of family members. After the brunch, mummy dropped Emeryn at Pekaka and mummy went to the digital camera fair. Mummy bought a new digital camera at only RM300, really good bargain with good price. Mummy got one for Theng Ee Ee as well. We went home later for Emeryn's nap before daddy fetched us to por por's house. We had our dinner there and spent some time before leaving home.